Thursday, August 31, 2006

Away from Home (This is a long one)

Josiah and I took a road trip last week. A trip that lasted much longer than expected but a trip I was glad we could make. It started out to be an overnight trip. I have to work up north every three weeks with MTU and normally Josiah and I have gone just for the night, maybe two nights. But it worked out so that Dan was gone for the weekend, so I decided that we would stay at my mom's for the weekend. We were able to stop and see my college bud, Brandi on my way and drop off maternity clothes, because she recently found out that she was pregnant:) (I also recently found out that another college friend, Beth, is pregnant and both of them are due on the same day; how crazy is that. Plus my friend Kari has started the adoption processes...so our little circle of friends (The Yaya's) from college are multiplying quickly. We are going to have so much fun with all of our kids growing up and being so close in age. Our get together's will never be the same!!! I can't wait!!) Back to my trip:) After Brandi's, we stopped by my friend Christy's house to visit her and her two boys. Always a fun stop and now that Josiah is beginning to interact with people more and getting together with her and her boys is getting more fun.

Then we were on to my mom's. I worked on Friday. Which would have been like any other work day up North, except I locked my keys in the car:( But thankfully the towing company was on top of their game that day and within 20 minutes of my initial call I was on the road again. Then I did some garage saling!! Yah!! I don't get to do that very often and it is harder to do with Josiah in tow. I found some great deals on toddler toys since Josiah is walking along furniture and pushing a walker now. I had no age appropriate toys...thank goodness for garage sales!!! Back at Grandma Sherry and Grandpa Bob's we just hung out and took lots of walks for the weekend. We had a really nice relaxing time.

On Sunday we were on the road again. We were off to visit Great Granma D. We called her up on Sunday morning and asked if she was up for company...and of course who could refuse a visit from the cutest grandkid ever...and of course there is Josiah too:) hehehe. Grandma took some pictures and video and then we were off to lunch. We had a nice visit. I was glad that it worked out for us to stop and visit. She doesn't get to see Josiah very often.

Then we were on the road again. Off to visit more grandparents. This visit was a God inspired visit. First of all, my dad didn't have it down on the right day on the calender...he thought we were coming to visit the following weekend. Probably if they had been planning on us coming, they may have said don't come. Kathie's mother had made a turn for the worse over the week prior to our visit and by the time we got there she had stopped eating and drinking. Had I known, I probably wouldn't have come and so I think that is the reason God had kept us all in the dark. When we arrived, I was very taken aback at Grandma's state. But thankfully I had Josiah in my arms and he just smiled at her...even giggled a little at the sounds she was making while breathing. I am pretty sure she knew we were there. In fact when Kathie told her that she was going to show us the house, Grandma said "Okay" and I believe that is the last time she spoke. I think that Josiah being there took away from some of the sadness and anxiety that my dad and Kathie were feeling. Josiah was so happy and played so well that it was hard not to smile at him. He was God's perfect distraction from such a hard time. On Monday night Grandma passed away in her sleep. It was such a blessing. The day she passed was the anniversary of the date she and Grandpa eloped. They had a church wedding 6 months later, but didn't tell people that they had eloped. Kind of a cute story.

God also provided a distraction for myself...Josiah and I got very very sick. I have to tell you that is one of the hardest things I have had to deal with as a parent...changing a diaper of a sick kid while very nauseaus and sick myself. Not fun! My mom was sick the same night, followed by Bob a couple of days later and by the time I got home, Dan got it too. Hopefully it is now completely out of our system.

The funeral was set for Friday with the viewing on Thursday night. Since I was already up in the area, I decided to head back to my mom's and spend the rest of the week. I could make up my work the following week and Josiah could not have gone to day care with his diarrhea anyway. So it worked out very well. The only thing that didn't work out is Josiah's night time routine. On top of being sick, he was cutting 5 teeth at the same time, he hadn't seen his dad in a long time and we weren't home. Every time he woke up in the middle of hte night he couldn't get back to sleep. So I was very tired, but somehow I got through it.

Needless to say I was glad to be home. But it took Josiah a couple of nights to readjust and since he is still teething we are still having some problems at night. But this to shall pass!!!
p.s. I tried to post pictures and of course I couldn't get it to work:( I really wish it was working better or more consistently. When I get a chance again, I will post the pictures I was planning on posting with this post!

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Belated 8 Months Update


Things have been entirely to chaotic this month. I have hardly had a moment to get on the computer let alone blog. Plus the blogger pictures wasn't working for over a week and it was during that week that I actually had time to blog. Such is life. Hopefully I can get a few cute pictures posted today. Yah, I actually got it to work:) Happy day! So now I am going to try and upload a series of pictures that illustrates just how wiggly my little guy is...



Josiah updates for the month of July:
  1. July 1st: Learned to rake veggie puffs with his little fingers and put them into his mouth
  2. July 2nd: Learned to wave bye-bye right at 7 months
  3. July 9th:Sat very well without falling for days at a time...good strong back by 7 months
  4. July 4th: 1st 4th of July
  5. July 10th: Learned to whistle
  6. July 11th: pulled himself up to kneeling
  7. July 14th: 1st camping trip
  8. July 16th: 1st trip to ER (we didn't stay beause they took to long but not before he had his first butt thermometer;) He turned out to be just fine.)
  9. July 17th: Learned to go from sitting to crawling but not without a 1st fat lip:(
  10. July 19th: Pulls himself to standing for the 1st time (in the bath tub of all places).
  11. July 20th: 1st of many goose eggs. He crawled into the coffee table and couldn't get back out:)
  12. July 22nd: Learned to go from crawling to sitting. This is a great trick...because now he can go from toy to toy without me ever having to get up;) But this really was a milestone...he could really play on his own and become very independent. A good trait in a little child. It gives me freedom to get things done I need to get done while he plays with his toys.
  13. July 23rd: Discovered his love for Ramon Noodles...dad was so excited!!!
  14. July 25th: Started saying mom mom again:)
  15. July 26th: Crawled on his hands and knees for the 1st time
  16. July 27th: Went to Traverse City for the 1st time
  17. July 28th: 1st Boat ride (loved it)
  18. July 28th: 1st time in the lake swimming (loved it)
  19. July 30th: 1st watermelon (loved it)
  20. August 1st: Crawled up a stair for 1st time.

And the photo blogger stopped working again:( But at least I got to post what I did!!! I will do what I can to get right on top of 9 month pictures.

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Grocery List

  1. Bread
  2. Eggs
  3. Sausage
  4. Pancake mix (I have 1 box, spartan brand)
  5. Syrup (done)
  6. Cereal (done)
  7. Instant Oatmeal (done)
  8. Fruit
  9. Tuna fish (I have 4 cans)
  10. Lunch meat (I have some frozen that I can thaw out to bring)
  11. Cheese
  12. Chips
  13. Pickles
  14. Hamburger (and buns)
  15. Hotdogs (I have one package of turkey dogs) (and buns)
  16. Brats
  17. Potato Salad
  18. Macaroni Salad
  19. Meatballs
  20. Potatoes
  21. Onions
  22. Carrots
  23. Italian dressing
  24. Chicken broth
  25. Tomatoes
  26. Cucumbers
  27. Green Peppers
  28. Cookies
  29. Butter (done)
  30. Peanut butter (done)
  31. Marshmellows (done)
  32. Pie filling
  33. Chocolate bars (I have 6 candy bars)
  34. Graham crackers (done)
  35. Milk
  36. Dish Soap (we ran out on the last camping trip...need to replenish)
  37. Lemonade
  38. Pop
  39. Josiahs food (Cereal, sweet potatoes, cottage cheese, apple sauce, peaches)

I think that should do it!

Monday, August 14, 2006

The Menu is Set

Over Labor Day weekend Mindy and her husband Mike and Dan and I have made it an annual thing to go camping for the long weekend. We have had an awsome time the past two years and are looking forward to this year. Funny thing: I just got the pictures developed from our first trip 2 years ago. I took the camera in to get developed and really had no idea what pictures were on it until I saw them. And since I wasn't pregnant in these pictures I knew it was from the year before.

Anywhoo, Mindy and I got together to set the Menu. We both love eating good food when we camp, and we have similar tastes in food, so it works out well. The husbands either go along with what we make or make something for themselves...but mostly they like what we like, so it works out well.

SATURDAY
BREAKFAST
Eggies in a Nest
Sausage
Juice
LUNCH
Hotdogs or brats
Macaroni Salad
Chips
Pickles
Cookies
DINNER
Hobo pies (made in a dutch oven)
Tomato, cucumber, green pepper salad

This an awsome concoction that we have developed and perfected over the past two years.

DESSERT
S'mores
Peanut butter chocolate pies

SUNDAY

BREAKFAST
Pancakes
Bacon
Orange Juice

LUNCH
Hamburgers
Potato Salad
Chips
Cookies

DINNER
Leftovers

MONDAY

Today's menu is easy and leftovers and doesn't require a fire (in case we run out of wood)because we have to pack up to go home:(

BREAKFAST
Cereal
Oatmeal
Fruit

LUNCH
Tunafish Sandwhiches
Leftover Salads
Chips
Pickles
Cookies

*I wish the picture thing was working, I would have had a picture of lunch too! You will just have to imagine the brats and chips:)

Clean House

Two weeks ago I was going through a depression. The cause this time was mostly related to finances, weight gain and the unclean state of my house. They always add up over time and then come to a major peak where I can't take it any longer and I just cry it out or sleep it off. Sometimes it will go away quickly and sometimes it lingers.

Last Saturday I was really down and just wanted some time away from my house and everything in it...the responsibility and the mess. I just needed some time where I didn't have to worry about what time Josiah was to go down for a nap or when he needed to eat or how to entertain him (which he does really well by himself these days)...but still I just wanted me time. And I hadn't had it for quite awhile. So I called Mindy to see what she had planned for Sunday and we made a date to go for a walk and get icecream.

So I went to bed with the hopefullness that this was just what I needed. I would go for a walk with a good friend, we would chat and get icecream and I would come home fully rejuvinated.

I get Dan all set to take Josiah for the day and I head out with many expectations. Mindy and I went for a great walk, we got icecream and had some great chats. We came back to her place and watched a movie and then it was time to head home. I had a wonderful afternoon. Unfortunately it wasn't the cureall that I had hoped for. I still felt unbelievably sad when I left. So I went to Taco Bell thinking that my favorite food would help. But I was almost in tears by the time I started eating my taco. By the time I got to my carmel apple empanada ( which I was sure would make me feel better) I was almost histerical with tears and I had to wait until I got home to eat it. At this point I didn't know what to do. I was driving home tears streaming. I was going to stop at one friends house in my way home, but couldn't bring myself to stop. Then I was going to call another friend, but I knew they were going through troubles of their own. I was going to call my mom, but I didn't know what to say and I had this crappy feeling that I shouldn't be feeling the way I am because I had everything in life. I have a wonderful husband an incredible little boy who loves me unconditionally. I have a roof over my head and we both have good jobs. So why in the heck was I feeling so crappy. I did finally get ahold of my Stephens Mininster (who had been assinged to me when we first moved here) but she was up north and wouldn't be home until really late.

The person that came through for me in the end was my dear husband. He knew when he saw me walk through the door that I wasn't do well. I went right up to the bedroom and laid down and he just laid next to me and hugged me and didn't say anything. He just waited for me to talk if that is what I wanted. I finally talked to him and he listened, he didn't try to fix my problems that I was having he just listened. It was exactly what I needed. What a guy!

On Monday, I decided to take Josiah to Day Care and take the day for myself with no one home. It was the best thing I could have ever done. On my way home from dropping him off, I passed the cemetary and I was pulled in. Very strange, but it was a draw I couldn't ignore. So I pulled in and found a place to park and started to walk. I walked very slow and read the names on the grave stones. I came across several baby head stones and it really put into perspective what a blessing Josiah was. It helped me remember that Josiah was a gift to me to take care of and no one can take care of him better than mom. But others can still take care of him when I need time for myself. I had such an uplifting walk that morning, that I came home and started to clean my house. I had so much energy for the first time in months I think! It was wonderful.

The best part of last week was when my mom came down on Thursday to help me really clean my house. I had started to pick up things and put things away that needed to be put away. But when she got here we tackled some major projects.

  • We rearranged and cleaned out the master bathroom. When i can post pictures again I will make sure to post them.
  • We went through the many many tubs of clothes that I have (summer and winter skinny, summer and winter thin, winter now and maternity clothes).
  • Plus we went through all of Josiah's clothes and moved him up to the next size clothes.
  • We cleaned my bedroom and rearranged some furniture. It was so amazing the difference it made to move the furniture arround. It also inspired Dan to get going on finishing some projects in the bedroom. We put the bed back up this weekend (which hadn't been up since before Josiah was born) and he finished the trim on the windows. Our bedroom looks so wonderful now.
  • We did a thorough clean of Josiah's high chair (which he made a mess of that night with spaghetti:) and some of his toys.

By the time my mom left Dan and I were so inspired to keep cleaning and getting htings done that I haven't stopped much to anything else:) Except nap on Sunday of course!!! So thank you mom for giving us the motivation and help we needed to get a handle on our house. I love being in my bedroom and bathroom. It is a haven from the rest of the house. I just hope I can keep it like that for a while.

Frustrated

I have been trying to add pictures to my camping post for a week now and no such luck Not sure what is going on, but I am soooo frustrated. And I have had the time to blog too, which makes me even more frustrated:( So I finally just published the post without pictures...I will get back to it when pictures can post again.

Monday, August 07, 2006

Josiah's 1st Camping Trip

We had such a great time! It was a last minute camping trip. I know, me spontaneous!! Don't let me kid you though...I still packed the kitchen sink (and bathtub):) I only had 4 days to get ready, but I still loaded the entire back end of hte camper!! But we had everything we needed and had an awsome time.

Friday Night
We didn't get to the campsite until about 7:30pm. Josiah took a great nap on the way to the campground and was rearing to go when we got there. Thank goodness I packed the excersaucer, because it was a life saver. We got everything set up just in time to get Josiah ready for a bath and bedtime. Thank goodness I stuck in Josiah's little blow up duck tub!! We heated up some water and gave him a little bath, I nursed him and laid him down in his pack-n-play (which by the way, fit perfectly in the camper where the table would normally set up.

After we put Josiah to bed Dan and I finally sat down and relaxed. I had found a new strategy game for kids at a garage sale called "Blockus". Very fun game. I don't normally like strategy games, but since it was designed for children, I could figure it out:) We didn't bother with a campfire Friday night because we were already to hot to bother with a fire.

SATURDAY

Josiah woke up at 6:00am and had no idea where he was and was immediately histerical. So I went and got him and brought him into bed with us. Amazingly enough we didn't even feel crowded with Dan, Buster, Josiah and myself. To calm Josiah down I nursed him and he went right back to sleep for another couple of hours. When we all finally woke up we just laid in bed and played for a little while.

After we got up and around, Dan and I needed to go to the bathrooms to brush teeth and stuff, so we put Josiah in the stroller and headed out with Buster to the bathrooms. Josiah remained reclined in his stroller for the entire walk. To cute!

Then we got breakfast for all of us! The picture that follows is for the benefit of Mindy. We love food when we go camping and this is just to get ya excited about our upcoming camping trip!!

After breakfast Josiah was ready for a nap and we just hung out and relaxed...ok so those who know me know that I actually took a nap too! I love camping with a baby. Everytime he takes a nap is a perfect excuse to take a nap and what better